THE CHOICE IS YOURS
We often say that things happen to us or that everything happens because of the Almighty, but the catch is that whatever happens, that choice will be ours. Things happen, and situations arise, but saying yes or no is always in our hands. There is nothing called pressure or we have to.
We just get to choose and lead the path ahead. This becomes or makes the journey of our lives.
HOW IS OUR LIFE JOURNEY DIFFERENT?
The answer to that is, the choices that we make probably lead to a different life journey for all of us. At every step and every phase of life, we encounter different scenarios.
We always dreamt of different lifestyles, career professions, Infact a lil. lil. choices whether to choose our dress, or bag, etc. you know tiny tiny things. If we get the one that society or people around us tell us, then we might encounter an unsatisfied feeling. The emotional health is gone, & people who told you to choose they remains happy but you will be the one who's gonna deal with it every day, every single minute. So, choose it wisely, in fact we should tell every single person around us to choose or to decide it for themselves only. Why do we all want to intervene in others' lives?
I agree, being senior or elder, people usually share their experiences but they should tell all that with their experiences only and how they dealt with it and if they thought they made wrong choices, so they better tell them what should the other ways of dealing that which they missed out or we can say they also should share the learnings they got out of that experience. But we start judging or misjudging or underestimating our children/juniors with the fear of their failure or that they might also make the same choice/mistake they did at their time. You never know about their capabilities; they might perform better than their seniors. You never know, ryt. So we let others make their choices by their own. You can better beware them but don't interfare in their decision, let them decide/choose in the end, what they want to do or what they don't. Yes, but as their path guide or their guardians, we should warn them or tell them how this may go wrong but never force them to not to choose or what to choose. Because if they will choose anything, you never know they might have sense of dealing better. That's their life journey. They have the full right to choose what's best for them. And this is how they will never feel with the regret that they might can do this way or dealt in past. It's a beautiful way to move ahead in life because we have already explored the one choice we made in case it didn't work out very well.
LIFE IS A PROCESS OF LIVING THE JOURNEY WHERE NOTHING GOOD OR BAD, FAIL OR PASS MATTERS. THE ONLY THING THAT MATTERS IS TO BE THERE COMPLETELY IN THAT MOMENT. IF YOU SUCCEED, CONGRATULATIONS, BUT IF DON'T, THEN TAKE LEARNINGS OUT OF IT AND MOVE ON.
IT IS THAT SIMPLE. NO SADNESS, NO REGRETS, NO GUILT. JUST REALISATION AND AWARENESS FOR THE FUTURE EVENTS.
SOUL JOURNEY
Just like while we travel, we keep collecting different fridge magnets wherever we travel, and in the end, we end up having a bag full of magnets. In the same way, we travel to different lives & we keep on adding sanskar or habits to our behavior, which leads to our soul journey. Our choices make that journey a bag full of memories, habits. So, better to take good learnings as memories, good habits of letting go and moving on with the learnings and awareness. Just enjoy every single bit of your experience. To enjoy doesn't mean to be happy but to be satisfied and live that moment to the fullest. Give your best shot is waht I call it Enjoyment.
HENCE, CHOOSE WISELY BECAUSE THE CHOICE IS ALWAYS YOURS.
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